The Fallacy in Hope

By Preetu Misra

It is generally believed that hope is a good thing. It drives people on, it's the ray of light when things are dark and so on and so forth. I do not pretend to agree with the thought as it is too convenient and also tends to build an aura of lethargy that is very difficult to overcome. Hope is not a good thing if you are absolutely sure that you have exhausted all your means for achieving whatever it is that you want to achieve. Perhaps the idea has its uses when one has reached rock bottom and there is absolutely nothing left to lose. This is the situation when things can only get better. Even then, you see, it is more a matter of inevitability, than of hope.

Often after great achievements, people will tell you stories of difficulties overcome with grit on the strength of hope. I agree as far as grit is concerned but I would like to know whether these people were sitting idle in the face of difficulties or not. There must have been enormous efforts that actually helped ride past the crisis to reach the goal. If you argue that sometimes, even efforts are not enough and in the face of continuous failure you need something else, then it is my opinion that the only thing you need is time. A great amount of hope without the support of practical means will simply lead to the dilution of effort that is necessary. Put in very straightforward terms, 'hope' is the name that people unwittingly give to their immense believe in 'luck', and the idea that theirs might turn.

Ironically, there is some truth in the idiom 'hoping against hope'. Defined as 'To hope with little reason or justification' it actually explains my basic tenet in this discussion. Even hope is actually without logic. When you know that you have taken your exam badly, you hope that you are going to pass, that you might even do well. What you are actually wishing for is some error in evaluation without thinking that it might adversely affect the result of a deserving candidate. When you know that a patient is suffering from a condition that is fatal, you hope that there might be a miracle. True, medical miracles happen, but that is not because you have hoped for it. It is because medical professionals are extremely competent and can at times work out marvels in curative treatment. So instead of hoping, you should make sure that you get in touch with the right people at the right time.

I have a strong feeling that hope is something that does not let people come to terms with real facts of life. It is an impediment in the road to moving on. So and so will understand, such and such will regret, he or she will appreciate. Well, in all probabilities they will not. Human beings do not change so easily. So it is much better to accept that there is no hope where there is no reason and let things be. If you want people to understand, you have to prove your point. That necessitates taking an effort, not just basking in the futility of hope.

Preetu is a contributed writer for Batchmates.com the largest Alumni portal in India. With her research work and articles she has added an additional edge to the entertainment e-magazine BM Times. Her articles reach to millions of readers every day which are varied in subjects.

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Counseling Resources to Restore Hope and Combat the Culture of Fear

By Gretchen Netterfield

In these difficult times, counselors and helping professionals are looking for something extra to put in the therapy toolbox because our media, our politicians and our next-door neighbors are singing the same tune, expect the worst...Companies are going to fall, more people are going to lose their jobs and their homes. The unrelenting scenes of war and violence and pandemic warnings weigh heavily on our hearts and our minds. We live in an information and media driven society where there are few avenues to escape the culture of fear and imminent doom.

The challenge for both the client and the counselor is to embrace optimism and restore hope as an achievable paradigm within the counseling process. To acknowledge that hope is a choice even in the worst of times and to reinforce that courage is holding onto hope despite your fears. Challenging clients to hope is a way to reinforce goals and aspirations and anchor the counseling process within a positive framework. Having hope provides protection against being stuck in the past or trapped in the vicious cycle of negative and pessimistic thinking. Hope is also a valuable tool in the management of depression, anxiety, powerlessness and hopelessness. Restoring hope will greatly increase the likelihood of developing and maintaining healthy avenues to cope and reduce distress.

The difficulty is making hope real and translating a concept into a tangible coping mechanism. The first step is finding a tangible representation of the challenge and an expression of a person's intention and motivation to move forward. This can be done by encouraging your client to nominate an object or item that symbolizes the challenge of holding onto hope. It can be a piece of jewelery, a rock, a shell or a coin, a piece of string, anything that can be easily carried around.

Thus using a real world prompt to remind clients to stay strong and true to their aspirations especially during times of stress when it is most likely that old destructive or negatives habits will become very enticing. Constant reminders are required to assist clients to make changes of any kind, from trying to stop nail biting to managing depressive thoughts. The object or item therefore forms part of the action plan and allows clients to take a reminder of the session details into their daily lives.

The nominated item becomes a symbol of courage to make changes and therefore letting go of fear and not letting a person's past dictate the way they live in the present or future. This approach helps the counselor encourage and support a client's progression towards their goals and helps clients to engage in the action phase of change. Real world prompts are also useful as a focal point during panic or anxiety attacks. Breathing and relaxation exercises taught and practiced in the counseling session can act as a reminder to clients of their ability to self soothe and manage symptoms.

Optimism is not blind, naive or even completely curative but that is not a good enough reason to accept negativity as the only option. Hope is a coping mechanism that allows us to acknowledge that even though life might be difficult you can still choose to hope that things for yourself, your family, and your community will get better. The crossroads and the rollercoaster's that make up the human experience are more easily traversed and endured with the help of hope.
Hope is the accessory that goes with everything. It is a way to combat the culture of fear and negativity head on.

'Hope is the physician of each misery.' Irish proverb

Gretchen Netterfield

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Quotes About Hope

By Kristy Snow

Quotes about Hope

If you need some hope, look for the good in others, in yourself, and in your Maker. At various times throughout life, there are setbacks and tragedies. These bad things are part of being human. The hope is what keeps us going and helps us to find happiness and joy in the suffering.

Instead of running from pain and suffering, we should embrace it. Why? It allows the soul to mourn and finally to heal properly. The whole process is somewhat complicated and different for everyone. However, there are things that can help.

Prayer

Prayer can bring hope to those filled with despair. The very act of prayer helps you to go outside of yourself and focus on the positive. If you are in deep despair, you can at least pray for hope and it will come. Prayer has a keen way of focusing the mind and helping us to stop focusing on self. This act, alone, helps humans to break out of the ego or pain like state.

Doing Things

If you want more hope, it is important to keep doing things. Even the little things like keeping your car clean or going on a bike ride will infuse a lighter spirit. That's why it is good to do little things for others that need hope. Having the little things done, in life, makes everything a little easier to do.

Quotes of Hope

It's good to have information about how to be hopeful. Quotes are often a good source of inspiration. For example, humor enlightens the mind, lifts the spirit, and comes at will. It's the sure fire way to live life. And, hope is something you get from God and yourself. It can't be handed to you.

Positive Stories

It is also a good idea to tell yourself hopeful stories. Did you ever work for something important and get it? Do you feel a certain joy when helping others or when doing good? Telling yourself some positive things can also help you find hope.

Where there is light there is also truth and with truth comes hope because truth tells a wonderful story.

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Achieving Thank-Filled Hope - Christian Perspective

By Steve Wickham

"We always thank God for all of you and continually mention you in our prayers. We remember before our God and Father your work produced by faith, your labor prompted by love, and your endurance inspired by hope in our Lord Jesus Christ" -1 Thessalonians 1:2-3 (TNIV).

We read here Paul's thankfulness for the believers at the capital of the province of Macedonia, for he and the faithful there had experienced much vigilant opposition (Acts 17:11; 1 Thess. 1:6). At Thessalonica there had been rioting and revolt. This had all been brought about by Satan's virulent presence there at the time--through some jealous Jews who'd 'rounded up some bad characters'--and this even prevented Paul's planned return (Acts 17:5-9; 1 Thess. 2:18).

Paul is ironically humble and thankful regarding these trials, however. Though he is 'orphaned'[1] and effectively separated from the Thessalonians 'for a (short) time--even an hour,'[2] he reflects thankfully on their mutual faithfulness in the Holy Spirit.

And this seed-bed environment of 'severe suffering,' together with the welcoming of the Holy Spirit with joy manifest through faith, love and hope, produces a thank-filled hope beyond the clutches of the world. And Paul is further glad of this, because the faithful in Thessalonica were models to people all through Macedonia and Achaia (1 Thess. 1:7-8), and even to us, today, in how to approach the genuine Christian life, through a working faith, love and hope.

In fact, this is a biblical principle. "The history of the churches in Macedonia teaches us that suffering is the matrix out of which strong and healthy churches [and Christians] can emerge."[3] Indeed, anyone--and this is the truth and wisdom of universal law--can draw strength and health and hope from, and upon, the endurance of suffering.

Faith

Paul lauds the 'grace by faith' tradition in all his letters, particularly Galatians and Romans, but here he places it in context with works, agreeing with James.[4] Faith does produce works. Good work does bear fruit.

Love

Love is the goad behind all true good works, by virtue of its mystically motivating and innately self-propelling action. Love cannot hope to hold back. It sees a need and enters the fray, urgently, willingly, but never forcefully. We always work best, and in joyous candour, when love stokes our furnace.

Hope

Isn't it supposed to be, 'faith, hope, love,' and in that order? Not in this instance. The underpinning premise is hope. "True faith's work is never wasted, real love's labour is never lost, hope's resilience is never disappointed."[5]

And hope leads us to thankfulness...

Thank-filled Hope

Hope precedes thankfulness, for we cannot be thankful without being hopeful. Hopefulness propels us to where thankfulness is bound i.e. from reflection. And also hope succeeds thankfulness; one informs the other. Hope leads to thankfulness which further leads to hope and so on.

Copyright © 2009, S. J. Wickham. All Rights Reserved.

ENDNOTES:
[1] 1 Thess. 2:17. Wesley J Perschbacher (ed), The New Analytical Greek Lexicon (Peabody, Massachusetts: Hendrickson Publishers, 1990), p. 47. The Greek word (Strong's #642) aporphaniso means 'to deprive, bereave.'
[2] This is the literal Greek rendering, though it is unlikely it means a literal 'hour' as we determine it in our culture.
[3] Ajith Fernando, The NIV Application Commentary: Acts (Grand Rapids, Michigan: Zondervan, 1998), p. 468.
[4] See also Acts 26:20 where Paul said before King Agrippa, "... I preached that they should repent and turn to God and demonstrate their repentance by their deeds." (TNIV) (Italics added.)
[5] Philip Greenslade, 1 & 2 Thessalonians: The Coming that Completes the Story (Farnham, Surrey: Crusade for World Revival, 2004), p. 29.

Steve Wickham is a registered safety practitioner (BSc, MSIA, RSP) and a qualified, unordained Christian minister (GradDipBib&Min). He also has training and leadership Diplomas. His passion in vocation is facilitation and coaching; encouraging people to soar to a higher value of their potential. Steve's key passion is work / life balance and re-creating value for living, and an exploration of the person within us.

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HOPE - Do You Know the Secret Code in HOPE?

By Gurutej Khalsa

H.O.P.E. Want to find out what secret is encoded in this?

Hope is one of my favorite words and it is at a premium right now. Many people have lost their hope and can't seem to find it. They want someone else or something to give them hope. Good I want to share mine with you. I do want to tell you one thing. You may not like what I'm going to say but hope is contagious. If you want to be hopeful you have to fill yourself up with hope and you have to keep the company of the hopeful.

How do you fill up with hope when it seems like we can recite all the reasons not to be hopeful. There appear many reasons to doubt hope at this moment. Yet.... when we get hopeless we loose our E. our energy goes down the tube and we have a name for this. Depression. The D word is not a part of hope and it renders us very lethargic.

What is hopeful about these times? Everything is being transformed. That is both scary and exciting. You don't have to choose one or the other it often fluctuates back and forth between the two. The old is caving in on itself and we have a chance to rebuild in a new more graciously inclusive way of living. Call it sustainable, call it green, call it pink I don't care but know it is more connected.

The connection you have to bring to the party called life is invaluable because without it the linking is weaker. You have a key to all this and it can only be discovered by you. Use all the help you want and need to uncover it. Truth be told you are the holder of it and only you can bring it forth. Others can help awaken it and structure it with and for you but you and you alone are your brand. This does not mean you have to do this alone. Quite the contrary this is not the time for alone. It is the time for alone.

1.     You have to know what you have to offer. The knowingness comes from being, meditating allowing the vision.
2.     You have to be able to look around and see who can support you in bringing this forward. Might be different people at different stages.
3.     Look at what parts and people you need to make this happen or look at what is happening and see how you can bring your gifts to something already in existence.
4.     This is not a static process. 1,2,3, done.

This is great to get you to a calm place of knowingness

Sitali Breath

Breathe out that stress...

Roll the tongue and stick it past your lips. If you cannot roll it, just make an "O" shape with your mouth with the tongue protruding slightly beyond the lips. Breathe in deeply through the mouth. Exhale slowly through the nose emptying the lungs all the way.

1-2 minutes

 
Gift

The best anti-stress breath available. The breath passing over the wet tongue creates a cooling effect.

To get some knowingness going it requires vision, to get vision you need stillness, to have stillness you must loose the anxiety, to loose the anxiety you must have yoga (that which connects and unites you), to allow yoga you must have enough self-worth intact, to have self-worth you need support, to ask for support requires knowing that you need it. So knowing

and asking remains at the core of this process. What do you know? What do you know is unknown to you? What help do you want? What do you have to offer?

This is just a brief outline of the success of HOPE. Are you ready to embrace hope? To be the epic-center of HOPE? If yes then connect with mewww.gurutej.com sign in at my optin box get a little gift, connect, and tell me how I can help you with HOPE.

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How Hope Now Can Help You Avoid Foreclosure and Keep Your Home

By Rick Benson

With the economy in the U.S. the way that it is, over 400,000 home owners will be able to avoid foreclosure while being in the Hope Now program. In the Hope Now program, it prevents foreclosure for at least the next three years, and it might also be capable of helping you by simply doing your loan over and turning it into a fresh 30 year or 40 year fixed rate loan which means smaller payments for you.

It is not a complicated process to understand and it is easy for a distressed home owner to take part in Hope Now program. To begin the home owner must get in contact with the current lender and talk about if and how they would possibly qualify and if they are suitable for the Hope Now program.

Next repair working with bothered homeowners possibly will determine that the best elucidation for avoiding foreclosure could be to refinance with the home owner and put them into a Hope Now loan. Also if a troubled home owner is operating with a counselor and the home owners lender have either agreed or reached a shared understanding that Hope Now is necessary then and only will they proceed with a decision to prevent foreclosure.

When creating this program it was envisioned so that in a way main home owners would initially take part in the Hope Now program and through the working with lenders with their current mortgage.

Joining the Hope Now program is a cost benefit. When entering the program the take your Affordability versus value. This is when your lender possibly will take the loss and on the difference in between some of the existing commitments and on your new loan.

In this process your lender may as well decide to provide the home owners with a more affordable monthly mortgage bill. And your lender may also determine entering the Hope Now program is a viable and an of use option for extenuating sufferers and will review the home owners eligibility into the program. All these are factors that your lender will and can take into consideration.

When you are considering entering the Hope Now program your lender will disclose to you the remuneration of the Hope Now program. Some of these benefits include; home retention, a new and affordable mortgage which is based on your current home appraised value and you and your home will gain 3.5 percent equity. Once you are a part of the Hope Now program you have a commit to maintain and you now are safe from foreclosure with a peace of mind.

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A Glimmer of Hope

By Lynn Bradley

In a world where the very existence of mankind is threatened, people are desperately searching for a glimmer of hope. When jobs are vanishing, home values are sinking, mortgages are out of sight, where do you find hope? When congress is attempting to borrow their way out of debt with our money, where is the hope in that? When banks are afraid to make loans and people cannot afford the home they paid too much for, where do you look for hope?

The trillions of dollars of debt we have amassed are more than anyone can begin to comprehend. Without the means to earn a living, and many without a home they can afford, who can they look to for answers? The people in Washington seem to think that more spending will fix everything. Does that make any sense? Since we put them in office, about all we can do, is to give them a chance. If they fail, we can give the other party a shot at it.

Although the extravagant proposals to fix the economy are filled with much that has little to do with creating jobs, some will be created. It remains to be seen if they will create enough. We will get through this and be stronger for it. Americans have never shrunk back from a crisis and we are not about to give up now. As long as there is life, there is hope.

It appears that no person or groups of people have the ability to give us hope of unraveling this mess. True hope did not originate with mankind. The Lord told those in exile, "I know what I have planned for you. I have plans to prosper you, not to harm you. I have plans to give you a future filled with hope" (Jeremiah 29:11).

Hope from God does not come in glimmers, but downpours. He is in the hope business. From one man he created every nation and determined the set times and fixed limits of the places where everyone lives (Acts 17:26). Our Creator is the one we must look to for hope. We may feel that we are in exile, but he will provide the way out.

Lift up your heads Americans. We have survived tough times before. We were totally unprepared when engulfed into World War Two. We fired up our defense plants, worked overtime, praised the Lord and passed the ammunition, and we won! We were caught off guard when big banks made loans to those who could not afford them. We will get our bearings and win again.

Lift up your head to God. He created mankind in his image. He gave us the ability to think and solve our problems. This is no time to turn away from him. This is the time to draw near to him so he will draw near to us. He created us for success, and he has plans to help us succeed. Praise the Lord and pass the news to everyone that we have hope from the one that cannot fail.

Hope in God is not like earthly hope, since it does not depend upon human ability. Hope from above is an anchor firm and secure (Hebrew 6:18). It is that hope which God, who does not lie promised, before the beginning of time (Titus 1:2). The promises of God give confidence to face the future. They are based on his word, which it is more secure that heaven and earth (Matthew 24:35). If you want this kind of hope, you need the book, "Climbing the Heavenly Stairs." It explains how to have the confidence to live by. http://thelynnbradleybook.com

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